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January
General Membership Meeting to Combine Business and Fun!
The
next General Membership meeting will take place on Friday, January 17th
at 7:00 p.m. Everyone was pleased with the location of our last meeting
so we will be at Crane Rehab again (101 River Road, Suite 112). |
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From The Editor In October of 2002,
the level of visibility of the DSAGNO in the greater New Orleans community
was raised considerably. The success of our first Buddy Walk event was
overwhelming. Over 1,200 people were in attendance and $30,000 was raised
for local early intervention programs, parent support and research.
This level of success for a first-year event is astounding. |
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| MARK
YOUR CALENDARS! BOARD MEETING -- January
14th. GENERAL MEMBERSHIP
MEETING -- January 17th. LADIES NIGHT OUT --
BONCO -- February 15th. WRIGHTSLAW SEMINAR
-- February 17th. We
join in celebrating the following December: January: |
Through
the Grapevine Advice from Parents to Parents Recently
a friend asked me about our use of sign language with Kevin. She has a
3 month old baby and was wondering if it was something they could do.
I told her we've been using sign language with Kevin and it has been very
successful for us. Kevin only uses 2 signs himself, but understands quite
a few more than that. He can sign "more" and "finished"
and we found that just these 2 signs alone have helped relieve quite a
bit of his frustration in communicating. "More" can be a very
powerful sign (especially when you're 18 months old and talking about
Cheerios!). Karen Scallan If you have a contribution, tip, or question for Through the Grapevine, send it to Karen Scallan or Ann Lafourcade. |
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| DISCIPLINE
TOOLS, RULES, AND LIMIT SETTING By Laura Vagianos and Maxine Kimbrell Discipline
is the process of guiding and teaching children to behave acceptably within
certain limits, to cooperate, to be responsible, and to think for themselves.
Different ages and stages of development present different needs and discipline
challenges. QUESTIONING
ADULT RESPONSES Are
expectations for the child clear? Are attempts made to explain expectations
on a level that the child can understand? Do parents prepare the child
for what is expected of them in unfamiliar situations? Do parents offer
explanations of what the occasion is about and what behavior will be expected
so guessing isn't necessary? To prevent inappropriate behavior or misunderstanding,
parents need to initiate and maintain continuous two-way communication
with the child. Are consistent limits understood and followed? Children may resist limits if there is too much adult control and not enough room allowed for their choice. One of the ways parents help children develop an internalized set of behavioral standards is to be consistent in implementing rules. |
Inconsistent rules may result in a child becoming manipulative. Adults
must be careful that they follow the rules they make for children. Children
learn more from what an adult does than from what an adult says. If parents
want their children to behave responsibly, they must behave responsibly
themselves.
KEY
POINTS HOW
TO REDUCE DISCIPLINE PROBLEMS Set
Limits Use
Empathy Continued on next page... |
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Share The Control
• Are children allowed some of the control? • Are children listened to for their newly developing ideas? • Is there an atmosphere of give-and-take? • Is a menu of choices acceptable to both parent and child presented? • Can sentences and open-ended questions be asked so the child has to think and formulate decisions? • Are questions sincere? (How are you going to solve that?) • Are children encouraged to figure out solutions? • Do adults support children by providing general guidelines, acceptable options, and positive feedback as children begin to become more independent in making choices and decisions? • Is choice allowed at an early age no matter how small the decision? • Is the child given limits/consequences that the adult is willing to carry out? • Are the choices given/limits set/consequences all safe ones? Maintain
Self-Control And Understand The Development Of Self-Control Be
Consistent Time-Out |
These questions may help you decide when to
use time-out:
1. Is time-out being used as a time for the child to regroup? 2. Is time-out used as a retreat for the child, not the adult? 3. Is time-out used as one answer among other alternatives? 4. Are children given the chance to have some control by making choices about their daily activities? Use
time-outs sparingly Redirection SUMMARY Young
children need adults to watch and guide them, and to protect them from
harm because they do not yet consistently remember rules and limits. It
is normal for young children to misbehave because they are just REFERENCES Maccoby, E.E. & Martin, J.A. (1983). Socialization in the context of the family: Parent-child interaction. In P.H. Mussen Handbook of Child Psychology. Hamner, T.J. (1990). Parenting in a Contemporary Society. Second edition. Boston: Allyn & Bacon. |
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Tillie’s
Corner My brother
Corey is different. November Membership
Meeting The November membership meeting was eventful on many levels. It marked the first time we held our meeting at Crane Rehab. Everyone seemed to enjoy the new facility...parents and kids alike. And what a bargain...physical therapy for only $5.00 per hour! It was a win-win situation for all so our next membership meeting will be at Crane again. |
We also had the privilege of hearing Maxine Kimbrell of LSU-HDC's Early Intervention Institute speak to us about "Surviving the Holidays with Well Meaning Family and Friends"--a timely topic for many. Maxine discussed ways to handle the stress on our children and us when confronted with holiday gatherings. She suggested families might institute new traditions such as having family gather at your home to alleviate travel stress and allow your child to stay in his/her familiar surroundings. Maxine also suggested writing a letter in advance to family and friends telling them of your child's accomplishments during the year and gentle reminders to family members who tend to "compare" children that everyone learns at their own pace And Regina Damore of Discovery Toys was on hand to give us all a head start on Holiday shopping. Regina is also an early interventionist in private practice and an education consultant. She is available to help with such things as supplementing your child's IEP goals and strengthening work @ home. She can troubleshoot education issues such as getting homework done by evaluating practices and making suggestions. Regina also consults on inclusion issues for schools and daycare centers. For education and early intervention issues or if you are interested in Discovery Toys, you can reach Regina at 885-1732. Many thanks to Crane Rehab, Maxine Kimbrell and Regina Damore for a wonderful meeting. |
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From
My Side. . . I
was a member of the St. Charles Parish Vision of Inclusion Committee as
a self-advocate. Happy New Year…..Craig
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NEW
FROM WOODBINE HOUSE PUBLISHERS! My Word Book Words and Tools for Writing and Spelling By Marilyn Dale, M.S. (From the WoodbineHouse Website, www.woodbinehouse.com) My Word Book is a handy, easy-to-use, low-tech tool to help children and adults with disabilities write independently. It offers pages that are preprinted with the most commonly used words in the English language, as well as ample space to record personal lists of favorite and useful words, names, and places. This simple tool enables users to write more easily when completing schoolwork such as journal writing and tasks such as composing letters, shopping lists, and to-do lists. One of the great assets of My Word Book is that word lists can be customized to reflect studies, work, and personal interests. For instance, before a new curriculum unit on transportation, a student can list the words---car, train, airplane---that will likely be encountered. Or an adult sending out holiday greetings can consult his list for the correct spellings of "Christmas" and "Thanksgiving." Additional material in the back of the book provides lists, charts, and illustrations detailing simple punctuation, days of the week, months and their abbreviations, dates, coins, clocks, counting, simple measurements, common symbols, and other useful information. Portable,
flexible, and affordable, My Word Book is a great aid to visual learners
such as individuals with Down syndrome and can also be used by children
and adults with autism, fragile X syndrome, learning disabilities, mental
retardation, and traumatic brain injury. Teachers, parents, caregivers,
and employers will appreciate the adaptability of My Word Book to many
tasks and the independence it fosters. |
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| Louisiana
Benefits and Planning Assistance and Outreach Project
The focus of the Louisiana
Benefits Planning Assistance and Outreach (LA-BPA&O) Project is to
provide one-on-one benefits counseling to SSI and/or SSDI beneficiaries
who are interested in learning more about: |
Our
House Recently,
I became painfully aware that I could not be Supermom. I asked for help
in the form of respite. I made an appointment to present my application
to OCDD in person and made the appointment the only time my ChildNet case
worker could not attend. This meant I was going it alone, but I was determined.
The lack of sleep was catching up with me and I was catching a cold. I
needed help. Ignoring my cold symptoms (if I don't pay attention to it,
maybe it will go away), I began working. I collected documentation, made
phone calls and wrote a five-page description of our situation to accompany
the multi-page application. |
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| Profiles...
Aunt
Joan - "His joy is contagious, we wish we all had that sweet spirit." |
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St.
Michael's School Holds Annual Chef's Charity
St.
Michael's will hold it's annual Chef's Charity for Children on Tuesday,
January 21 and Wednesday, January 22 at the New Orleans Hilton Riverside,
1st Floor Ballroom. This year 11 chefs will be doing demonstrations, including
Emeril, John Folse, John Besh, Leah Chase and Frank Brigtsen. Doors open
at 9 a.m., demonstrations begin at 10 a.m. and food is served at 1 p.m.
Tickets will be available at the door or in advance through St. Michael's.
Tables for 10 can be reserved on either day at a cost of $350.00. Single
tickets are $35.00. Tickets ordered after January 10th will not be mailed,
but they can be picked up at the door. For more information, call 524-7286. |
New
Look for DSAGNO
MJR
Photography And Graphics is now handling DSAGNO’s Newsletter and
Website. Over the coming months, many new additions will be added to the
new website. Please visit DSAGNO.com for the latest stories, information,
and news, as well as the DSAGNO calendar of events so that you can keep
up with all the new things that are happening with DSAGNO here and around
New Orleans. |
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| Upcoming
Conferences, Seminars and Events
The following list of events is subject to change. Contact the organizers to verify dates and times. All dates will be posted on the www.dsagno.com web site calendar. Be sure to watch our web site calendar for new dates and more information on other information events. January February Wrightslaw one-day
Advocacy Training Seminar --Metairie
The following list of events is subject to change. Contact the organizers to verify dates and times. All dates will be posted on the www.dsagno.com web site calendar. Be sure to watch our web site calendar for new dates and more information on other information events. February June July September/October Doors to Inclusion:
Universal Access Conference |
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Buddy Walk 2003 Sponsors and Beneficiary Agencies Buddy
Walk Committee members haven't let any grass grow under their feet! They
had their first meeting in December and BW2003 is already in the planning
stages. In order for BW2003 to be even bigger and better, we need to start
signing up our corporate sponsors. If you know of a corporation, business
or entity that might be interested in becoming a BW sponsor, contact Marian
Hauth at 833-1588. Baby Play Group to Begin Early 2003! Looking for something fun to do with that restless toddler? Join the DSAGNO Baby/Toddler Play Group. The group is just forming so we can all decide together on the best day and time and a few good places to meet. Call or email Karen Scallan to get on the contact list--kscallan@cox.net or 367-9848. Baby BumbleBee Web Site Offers Educational Freebies
Looking for teaching tools to enhance your child's education? Baby BumbleBee
is offering free downloadable educational practice sheets, flash cards
and posters. Just print them out and you're ready to go. Here are some
of the items offered: Handwriting practice sheets (lined alphabet paper
with sample characters in upper and lower case. Select the pages you want
or print them all); alphabet posters; number posters; and, Bee Smart Baby
Vocabulary Builder |
Attention
Parents with Children in Orleans, St. Charles and St. John Parish Schools
We're looking for parents with children with Down syndrome in the Orleans, St. Charles and St. John Parish schools to give us updates on inclusion efforts in those school systems. Let us know what your experiences have been. Have you attended School Board meetings or PTA meetings where inclusion was discussed? We'd like to hear from you so we can keep all our members interested in inclusion up-to-date. Contact Karen Scallan at 367-9848 or kscallan@cox.net. Interested in Inclusive Education? The
STEPS Forward Inclusive Post-Secondary Education Society is launching
its annual membership drive. STEPS Forward continues to need a solid membership
base of people who realize that children with intellectual disabilities
need options and choices for education, and deserve a chance for life
long learning. The research supporting inclusive education at the University
and College level is compelling. You can find their web page at Reauthorization of IDEA The NDSS recently issued a position paper on the reauthorization of the Individuals with Disabilities Education Act (IDEA). Copies of the paper will be available at the next General Membership meeting or by contacting Karen Scallan at 367-9848 or kscallan@cox.net. The NDSS urges all parents to contact their Senators and Representatives to let them know how they feel about the issues surrounding reauthorization of IDEA. Contact information for Senators and Representatives can be found at WWW.NDSS.org
DSAGNO would like to thank |
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| More
Upcoming Conferences, Seminars and Events...
The following list of events is subject to change. Contact the organizers to verify dates and times. All dates will be posted on the www.dsagno.com web site calendar. Be sure to watch our web site calendar for new dates and more information on other information events. February June July September/October Doors to Inclusion:
Universal Access Conference |
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WebSites KidQuest QualityMall.org Steps Forward
Inclusive Post Secondary Education Society EP Magazine
Exceptional Parent Disability.gov No Child Left
Behind |
More WebSites Office of
Special Education and Rehabilitation Services BumbleBee
Educational Tools Coming Soon! Travel for Persons
with Disabilities And of course, much much more! (AND DON’T FORGET TO CHECK OUT THE NEW WEBSITE...WWW.DSAGNO.COM)
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